Skip to content

Day 76: Do not rely on someone’s else to establish positive change in your life.


One big mistake most people make is tying or attaching their goals to another person or a friend. A dangerous pitfall to be concerned about any time you are setting goals is to to avoid tying them to the performance or willingness of your friends and colleagues. The cross is yours to carry.


You will concur with me that the best partner in your ministry or business is yourself and no one else. You will encounter conflicts and issues to resolve if you join hands especially with someone who is yet to understand your vision. A person who is not motivated and commited as you are. Decison making will take long as you will need his approvals in many instances. You will find yourself making one step ahead and making two behind.

Think a scenario where you delay going back to school as you wait to convince and persuade your friend to adopt the idea too, going back to school with afriend is a great idea and with time could prove very effective. Going to library can be fun and you can always have some omeds help with assignment. The greatest challenge is relying on this fried to establish a positive change in your own life. If you do so, you are already failed. Think about what could happen if your friend opted out? Would you opt out as well?

Photo by Ricardo Esquivel on Pexels.com

Do not wait for another person to improve your life. You can hope that their desires and motivation will correspond with yours, but it is a better strategy to rely on yourself by choosing alternatives that require your decision alone. The road is not as lonely as many people would want to believe.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

%d bloggers like this: